{"id":78587,"date":"2023-10-05T22:06:04","date_gmt":"2023-10-05T19:06:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/invidyo.com\/blog?p=78587"},"modified":"2023-10-05T22:24:50","modified_gmt":"2023-10-05T19:24:50","slug":"baby-comfort-objects-why-are-they-so-important","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/invidyo.com\/blog\/en\/baby-comfort-objects-why-are-they-so-important","title":{"rendered":"Baby Comfort Objects: Why Are They So Important?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"Normal\">Infants come into the world with an innate need to be cradled in the loving embrace of their caregivers. For months, they relish the warmth of those comforting arms, finding solace in the knowledge that their caregivers are there to tend to their every requirement. This close bond not only nurtures a sense of secure attachment but also instills in them the confidence to explore the world around them.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal\"><span class=\"tm6\">The need for comfort is part of being human. Comfort objects reassure us and give us a feeling of calmness, security and love. Using comfort objects <\/span><span class=\"tm6\">will h<\/span><span class=\"tm7\">elp your baby self-soothe when you are not around.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal tm8\"><span class=\"tm7\">Such objects give your baby a feeling of safety when they are in unfamiliar places and situations. <\/span><span class=\"tm7\">These objects become your baby&#8217;s companions and add to their experiences in daily life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal tm8\"><span class=\"tm6\">The psychological term used for comfort objects is &#8220;transitional object&#8221;. This is because as babies begin to make the journey from wholly dependent newborns to independent human beings, comfort objects aid them with the transition. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal tm8\"><span class=\"tm6\">Many children develop an attachment to a comfort object (it is also called a lovey or security object) at around 8-12 months of age. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal tm8\"><span class=\"tm6\">In this article you will read some frequently asked questions and find answers about comfort objects.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal\"><span class=\"tm6\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"what-is-a-comfort-object-for-a-baby\" class=\"Normal\"><span class=\"tm7\">What is a comfort object for a baby?<\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"Normal tm8\"><span class=\"tm9\">As its name suggests, a comfort object is an item that provides comfort to an infant or to a child to help them feel calm and secure. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal tm8\"><span class=\"tm9\">A comfort object is also known as a lovey (because of the close relation a child forms with the object) or a security object (because in unfamiliar situations a child depends on the object for security and staying calm). <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal tm8\"><span class=\"tm9\">Although every child finds comfort in different objects, comfort objects are usually soft, cuddly and comforting to touch. Some common types are: <\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li class=\"Normal tm8 tm10\"><span class=\"tm9\">Blankets<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"Normal tm8 tm10\"><span class=\"tm9\">Soft toys such as a teddy<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"Normal tm8 tm10\"><span class=\"tm9\">Part of a parent\u2019s clothing, for instance a tie or a t-shirt<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>ALSO READ: <a href=\"https:\/\/invidyo.com\/blog\/en\/baby-hearing-development-all-you-need-to-know\">Baby Hearing Development: All You Need to Know<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"what-are-the-benefits-of-comfort-objects\" class=\"tm8\"><span class=\"tm9\">What are the benefits of comfort objects?<\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"Normal tm8\"><span class=\"tm9\">According to studies, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2020\/04\/16\/parenting\/children-bed-toothbrush-lamp.html\">up to 70 percent<\/a> of young children develop strong attachments to comfort objects such as toys or blankets. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal tm8\"><span class=\"tm9\">Comfort objects make children feel good and help them manage new experiences. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal tm8\"><span class=\"tm6\">A comfort object: <\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li class=\"Normal tm8 tm12\"><span class=\"tm9\">Helps a baby relax and get to sleep<\/span><span class=\"tm6\">.<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"Normal tm8 tm12\"><span class=\"tm9\">Provides reassurance when a child is separated from their parents, e.g. at bedtime or childcare<\/span><span class=\"tm6\">.<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"Normal tm8 tm12\"><span class=\"tm9\">Provides comfort when a baby is frightened or upset<\/span><span class=\"tm6\">.<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"Normal tm8 tm12\"><span class=\"tm9\">Is a companion that a young child can talk to, sleep alongside, and share experiences with.<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"Normal tm8 tm12\"><span class=\"tm9\">Helps a child feel secure in unfamiliar environments by providing a link between a new situation and the comfort of home.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2 id=\"when-can-i-introduce-a-comfort-object-to-my-baby\" class=\"Normal\"><span class=\"tm7\">When can I introduce a comfort object to my baby?<\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"Normal\"><span class=\"tm6\">According to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.healthychildren.org\/English\/ages-stages\/baby\/Pages\/Transitional-Objects.aspx\">American Academy of Pediatrics<\/a> (AAP), a comfort object might be an important source of emotional support for your baby. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal\"><span class=\"tm6\">Studies show that about 60 percent of babies adopt a comfort or security object usually <strong>by 9 months of age.\u00a0<\/strong>(Some children never develop a strong attachment to a toy or blanket and that&#8217;s ok, too.)<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal\"><span class=\"tm6\">Experts recommend introducing a comfort object to your baby <strong>before age 1 but when they are awake.<\/strong> <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal\"><span class=\"tm6\">Children under 1 year of age should not sleep with anything in their cribs under the safe sleep policy of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.healthychildren.org\/English\/ages-stages\/baby\/sleep\/Pages\/a-parents-guide-to-safe-sleep.aspx\">AAP<\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal\"><strong><span class=\"tm6\">That means comfort objects, pillows, blankets, any soft toys, crib bumpers should be out of the crib during the first 12 months of age.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>ALSO READ: <a href=\"https:\/\/invidyo.com\/blog\/en\/tummy-time-101-why-your-baby-needs-it\">Tummy Time 101 \u2013 Why Your Baby Needs It<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"what-is-the-best-comfort-object-for-a-baby\" class=\"tm8\"><span class=\"tm6\">What is the best comfort object for a baby?<\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"Normal\"><span class=\"tm6\">If you are struggling with choosing a comfort object for your baby, here are some tips to help you pick something appropriate. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal tm8\"><span class=\"tm6\">Look for an object that is:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li class=\"Normal tm8 tm12\"><strong><span class=\"tm7\">Soft:<\/span><\/strong><span class=\"Hyperlink\"> You\u2019ll want it to be comfortable and secure for your baby. <\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"Normal tm8 tm12\"><strong><span class=\"tm7\">Free of loose parts and choking hazards<\/span><\/strong><span class=\"Hyperlink\">: No button eyes or removable parts. This is very important for the safety of your child. <\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"Normal tm8 tm12\"><strong><span class=\"tm7\">An appropriate size<\/span><\/strong><span class=\"Hyperlink\">: Think big enough to snuggle, but small enough to pick up and hold on their own.<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"Normal tm8 tm12\"><strong><span class=\"tm7\">Easy to duplicate or replace<\/span><\/strong><span class=\"Hyperlink\">: Consider purchasing a duplicate (or several) that you can rotate. Excessive use can cause the object to wear down and you also wouldn&#8217;t want your child feeling alone in case you forget the object while traveling, lose it on a trip or forget it somewhere.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2 id=\"how-can-i-introduce-a-comfort-object-to-my-baby\" class=\"tm8\"><span class=\"tm6\">How can I introduce a comfort object to my baby?<\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"Normal tm8\"><span class=\"tm6\">If you want to introduce a comfort object to your baby before they turn 1 year old, just remember that it should only be given to them outside of the crib and while they\u2019re awake.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal tm8\"><span class=\"tm6\">After your baby turns 1, a comfort object can join your baby during sleep in the crib.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h3 id=\"1-get-ready-to-introduce-the-comfort-object\" class=\"tm8\"><span class=\"tm16\">1. Get ready to introduce the comfort object<\/span><\/h3>\n<p class=\"Normal tm8\"><span class=\"tm6\">A comfort object can be part of your life for years. So you should choose the object carefully while also thinking about safety. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal tm8\"><span class=\"tm6\">You can sleep with the comfort object yourself first so that it smells familiar to your child when you introduce it. <\/span><\/p>\n<h3 id=\"2-include-the-comfort-object-in-your-everyday-life\" class=\"tm8\"><span class=\"tm16\">2. Include the comfort object in your everyday life<\/span><\/h3>\n<p class=\"Normal tm8\"><span class=\"tm6\">Include the comfort object in playtime, tuck it next to your child in the stroller as you walk to the park and include it for meals and cuddle sessions.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3 id=\"3-make-the-comfort-object-part-of-your-nap-and-bedtime-routines\" class=\"tm8\"><span class=\"tm16\">3. Make the comfort object part of your nap and bedtime routines<\/span><\/h3>\n<p class=\"Normal tm8\"><span class=\"tm6\">Encourage your baby to hold the comfort object during snuggles and bedtime books. <\/span><span class=\"tm6\">If the comfort object is a stuffed animal, say goodnight and give your toddler a chance to do the same.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h3 id=\"4-be-patient\" class=\"tm8\"><span class=\"tm16\">4. Be patient<\/span><\/h3>\n<p class=\"Normal tm8\"><span class=\"tm6\">Your baby may not seem interested in a comfort object at first. <\/span><span class=\"tm6\">Developing an emotional connection to a comfort object can take some time. Keep offering opportunities to interact with the lovey, and just know that whether your child chooses to bond or not with a lovey is up to them.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"tips-for-using-comfort-objects\" class=\"tm8\"><span class=\"tm6\">Tips for using comfort objects<\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"Normal tm8\"><span class=\"tm6\">Below are some tips for handling comfort objects:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li class=\"Normal tm8 tm12\"><span class=\"tm6\">If possible, buy extra identical versions of your child&#8217;s comfort object. When you wash it or if it gets lost, you will have extras. <\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"Normal tm8 tm12\"><span class=\"tm6\">Wash your child&#8217;s comfort object regularly to keep it clean and free from germs.<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"Normal tm8 tm12\"><span class=\"tm6\">Rotate the comfort objects so they&#8217;re equally worn and your child won&#8217;t be able to tell the difference between them.<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"Normal tm8 tm12\"><span class=\"tm6\">Make sure the comfort object doesn&#8217;t have small, detachable parts. This way choking hazards can be avoided.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>ALSO READ: <a href=\"https:\/\/invidyo.com\/blog\/en\/thumb-sucking-what-you-need-to-know\">Thumb-Sucking: What You Need to Know<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"when-should-children-give-up-their-comfort-toys\" class=\"tm8\"><span class=\"tm9\">When should children give up their comfort toys?<\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"Normal tm8\"><span class=\"tm9\">There is no typical age recommended by experts for a child to move on from their comfort object. All children grow out of the habit in their own time. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal tm8\"><span class=\"tm9\">The age children stop using a comfort object varies according to the,<\/span><\/p>\n<ul class=\"Normal tm8 tm17\">\n<li class=\"tm18\"><span class=\"tm9\">child<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"Normal tm8 tm18\"><span class=\"tm9\">family environment<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"Normal tm8 tm18\"><span class=\"tm9\">child\u2019s temperament<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"Normal tm8 tm18\"><span class=\"tm9\">experience.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<hr \/>\n<p class=\"Normal\"><span class=\"tm6\"><strong>References:<\/strong> healthychildren.org, babycenter.com, pathways.org, parenting.firstcry.com, sciencedaily.com, verywellfamily.com, whattoexpext.com, llli.org<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal\"><span class=\"tm6\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal\">\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Infants come into the world with an innate need to be cradled in the loving embrace of their&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":6,"featured_media":78600,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[345],"tags":[1436,1439,1384,1438,1440,1228,499,1435,1442,1432,1441,1433,1237,1434,1437],"table_tags":[],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/invidyo.com\/blog\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/78587"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/invidyo.com\/blog\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/invidyo.com\/blog\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/invidyo.com\/blog\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/6"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/invidyo.com\/blog\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=78587"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/invidyo.com\/blog\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/78587\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":78599,"href":"https:\/\/invidyo.com\/blog\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/78587\/revisions\/78599"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/invidyo.com\/blog\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/78600"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/invidyo.com\/blog\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=78587"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/invidyo.com\/blog\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=78587"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/invidyo.com\/blog\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=78587"},{"taxonomy":"table_tags","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/invidyo.com\/blog\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/table_tags?post=78587"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}