{"id":78035,"date":"2023-02-03T14:19:37","date_gmt":"2023-02-03T11:19:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/invidyo.com\/blog?p=78035"},"modified":"2023-02-08T23:11:22","modified_gmt":"2023-02-08T20:11:22","slug":"how-to-establish-a-bedtime-routine","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/invidyo.com\/blog\/en\/how-to-establish-a-bedtime-routine","title":{"rendered":"How to Establish A Bedtime Routine"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"Normal tm7\"><span class=\"tm8\">Establishing a bedtime routine is an important part of your baby&#8217;s development. Consistency in a bedtime routine is very important to foster healthy sleep habits.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal tm7\"><span class=\"tm8\">A baby will be more relaxed if they know what\u2019s coming next. A bedtime routine offers this predictability which is very important for getting quality sleep. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal tm7\"><span class=\"tm8\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC2675894\/\">Research <\/a>shows that a consistent bedtime routine can <\/span><span class=\"tm8\">help an infant sleep better<\/span><span class=\"tm8\"> with fewer and shorter late-night wake-ups.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal tm7\"><span class=\"tm8\">A bedtime routine is also good for parents since it offers a specific time period to spend with your baby. It is something you can plan depending on your family\u2019s schedule, and it may be the coziest way of transitioning from a busy day to a tranquil night. <\/span><\/p>\n\n<h2 id=\"when-should-you-start-a-bedtime-routine\" class=\"Normal tm7\"><span class=\"tm6\">When should you start a bedtime routine?<\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"Normal tm7\"><span class=\"tm8\">According to experts, there is no good or bad time for starting a bedtime routine.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal tm7\"><span class=\"tm8\">Routines are all about consistency and should be flexible according to your baby&#8217;s changing needs. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal tm7\"><span class=\"tm8\">Establishing a bedtime routine may not be the first thing you think of as soon as you get home from the hospital with your newborn. In the first days of life your newborn has to recover from the effort of being born. And so you do!<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal tm7\"><span class=\"tm8\">But some experts say that you can actually start a bedtime routine with your baby from day one since it doesn\u2019t have to be <\/span><strong><span class=\"tm6\">a rigid or strict schedule.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal tm7\"><span class=\"tm8\">Always remember that newborns don\u2019t have a predictable sleep schedule that you can set in accordance with the clock. And they don\u2019t have a sense of day and night. Their circadian rhythm needs some time to develop.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal tm7\"><strong><span class=\"tm6\">Before your baby is 6 weeks old,<\/span><\/strong><span class=\"tm8\"> you can focus on two main things: making sure they get enough sleep and engaging in activities that appear to relax them. Knowing what you should include in their bedtime routine when you are ready is important.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal tm7\"><span class=\"tm8\">You can start establishing a consistent bedtime routine when your baby is around <\/span><strong><span class=\"tm6\">6 to 8 weeks. <\/span><\/strong><span class=\"tm8\">This is when your baby may begin to settle into a more predictable sleep schedule.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"newborn-bedtime-routine-ideas\" class=\"Normal tm7\"><span class=\"tm6\">Newborn bedtime routine ideas<\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"Normal tm7\"><span class=\"tm8\">As mentioned before, <\/span><span class=\"tm8\">newborn bedtime routines don\u2019t have to be rigid or strict since your baby is still adjusting to life outside the womb. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal tm7\"><span class=\"tm8\">In the first few days, you should do whatever you can to ensure your baby is getting the care, love, and sleep they need. Establishing a consistent and strict sleep routine should not be your first priority. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal tm7\"><span class=\"tm8\">That means that engaging in activities such as:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li class=\"Normal tm7 tm10\"><span class=\"tm8\">carrying your baby around while they sleep<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"Normal tm7 tm10\"><span class=\"tm8\">letting them nurse until they fall asleep<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"Normal tm7 tm10\"><span class=\"tm8\">using a pacifier <\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"Normal tm7 tm10\"><span class=\"tm8\">sleeping in their swing<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>is completely fine. Although these are activities that cannot be continued for long, initially it is okay to use them to help with inducing restful sleep.<\/p>\n<p><span class=\"tm8\">These are sleep aids most parents appeal to in the first months. And it\u2019s normal. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal tm7\"><span class=\"tm8\">But it won\u2019t be possible for you to rely on such sleep-aiding activities for long. At this point, trying to establish a bedtime routine can help lessen the need for sleep-aiding habits. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal tm7\"><span class=\"tm8\">Habits you can depend on to begin building a proper bedtime routine include: <\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li class=\"Normal tm7\"><span class=\"tm8\">swaddling<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"Normal tm7 tm10\"><span class=\"tm8\">feeding<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"Normal tm7 tm10\"><span class=\"tm8\">using white noise<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"Normal tm7 tm10\"><span class=\"tm8\">rocking <\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"Normal tm7 tm10\"><span class=\"tm8\">placing the baby in their crib when they are drowsy but still awake<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p class=\"Normal tm7\"><span class=\"tm8\">You can also add a bath to your routine every other day. In total, your bedtime routine should take about 15-20 minutes. <\/span><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"why-is-a-bedtime-routine-important\" class=\"tm7\"><span class=\"tm8\">Why is a bedtime routine important?\u00a0<\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"Normal\"><span class=\"tm8\">Routines help stimulate your child\u2019s growth and development. And providing consistency helps them understand what to expect during the day. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal\"><span class=\"tm8\">With an appropriate bedtime routine, your baby will:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li class=\"Normal tm7 tm13\"><span class=\"tm8\">fall asleep faster<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"Normal tm7 tm13\">stay asleep for longer<\/li>\n<li class=\"Normal tm7 tm13\">have better sleep quality<\/li>\n<li class=\"Normal tm7 tm13\">sleep through the night<span class=\"tm8\"> over time<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"Normal tm7 tm13\">experience elevated moods<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p class=\"Normal tm7 tm13\"><span class=\"tm11\">Besides, a bedtime routine aids in bettering the <\/span><span class=\"tm8\">parent-child bond you share with your baby.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal tm7\"><span class=\"tm8\">Establishing a calming and soothing bedtime routine will help your baby relax before it\u2019s time to sleep. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal tm7\"><span class=\"tm8\">It\u2019s important to keep your routine as consistent and predictable as possible because your baby will be more relaxed if they know what\u2019s coming next. And don\u2019t forget that a bedtime routine can help you relax, too. <\/span><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"how-to-start-a-bedtime-routine\" class=\"Normal\"><span class=\"tm6\">How to start a bedtime routine?<\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"Normal tm7\"><span class=\"tm8\">After your baby is about <\/span><span class=\"tm8\">6 weeks<\/span> <span class=\"tm8\">old, they may follow a more regular sleeping pattern, eating, and playing. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal tm7\"><span class=\"tm8\">During these initial six weeks, you will also observe the tendencies of your infant and learn what soothes and relaxes them. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal tm7\"><span class=\"tm8\">To start a bedtime routine:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li class=\"Normal tm7 tm10\"><span class=\"tm8\">keep in mind that routines are about consistency<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"Normal tm7 tm10\">learn what soothes and relaxes your baby<\/li>\n<li class=\"Normal tm7 tm10\">acquaint yourself with your baby\u2019s sleepiness cues<\/li>\n<li class=\"Normal tm7 tm10\">wake and feed your baby at the same time each day<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2 id=\"tips-for-establishing-a-baby-bedtime-routine\"><span class=\"tm8\">Tips for establishing a baby bedtime routine<\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"Normal tm7\"><span class=\"tm8\">Sleep is the most important part of baby development. And a sleep routine is the best way of getting your baby ready for sleep. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal tm7\"><span class=\"tm8\">Babies crave consistency. A bedtime routine will help maintain this. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal tm7\"><span class=\"tm8\">Some tips for establishing a baby bedtime routine include:<\/span><\/p>\n<h3 id=\"give-yourself-enough-time\"><span class=\"tm6\">Give yourself enough time<\/span><\/h3>\n<p class=\"Normal tm7 tm10\"><span class=\"tm8\">Establishing a baby&#8217;s bedtime routine takes time and patience. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal tm7 tm10\"><span class=\"tm8\">First, you are getting to know your child and their needs, including their awake and sleep windows. <\/span><span class=\"tm8\">An awake window is the amount of time a baby can stay awake before needing to sleep. Awake windows are important to follow to ensure your baby is not overtired or under-tired before bed. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal tm7 tm10\"><span class=\"tm8\">For newborns, awake windows are usually short, averaging around 45 minutes. As every baby is different, give yourself time to understand your baby\u2019s sleep cues. These include rubbing their eyes and yawning. <\/span><\/p>\n<h3 id=\"consistency-is-key\" class=\"Normal tm7 tm10\"><span class=\"tm6\">Consistency is key<\/span><\/h3>\n<p class=\"Normal tm7 tm10\"><span class=\"tm8\">Setting a consistent bedtime is the most important part of a successful sleep routine. Because it helps your baby know what to expect. Predictability makes your baby feel secure. <\/span><\/p>\n<h3 id=\"stop-associating-feeding-with-sleep\" class=\"Normal tm7 tm10\"><span class=\"tm6\">Stop associating feeding with sleep<\/span><\/h3>\n<p class=\"Normal tm7 tm10\"><span class=\"tm8\">In the beginning, when your baby is a newborn, it is almost inevitable to not associate feeding with sleep. A tiny newborn quickly gets tired while feeding and falls asleep. But as your baby reaches 6 months, it might be worth feeding them first and then finishing the rest of their bedtime routine. Doing this may allow your baby to practice falling asleep on their own. <\/span><\/p>\n<h3 id=\"try-to-end-the-day-with-soothing-activities\" class=\"Normal tm7 tm10\"><span class=\"tm6\">Try to end the day with soothing activities<\/span><\/h3>\n<p class=\"Normal tm7 tm10\"><span class=\"tm8\">Over-stimulation gets in the way of a baby&#8217;s sleep. If you include energetic activities into your routine, your baby can easily get overstimulated. So when it&#8217;s closer to bedtime, switch to calming activities. A short bath, reading a book, and listening to lullabies are all great examples of soothing activities to include to your baby&#8217;s bedtime routine. <\/span><\/p>\n<h3 id=\"limit-screen-time-before-bed\" class=\"Normal tm7\"><span class=\"tm6\">Limit <\/span><span class=\"tm6\">screen time<\/span> <span class=\"tm6\">before bed<\/span><\/h3>\n<p class=\"Normal tm7\"><span class=\"tm8\"><a href=\"https:\/\/publications.aap.org\/pediatrics\/article\/138\/5\/e20162591\/60503\/Media-and-Young-Minds?autologincheck=redirected\">The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP)<\/a> recommends parents keep children under 18 months away from screens. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal tm7\"><span class=\"tm8\">AAP also <\/span><span class=\"tm8\">r<\/span><span class=\"tm8\">ecommends<\/span><span class=\"tm8\"> keeping all screens, including televisions, computers, laptops, tablets, and phones, out of your child\u2019s bedroom, especially at night. To ensure minimal sleep disruption, turn off all screens at least an hour before bedtime.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3 id=\"follow-a-shorter-bedtime-routine-for-naps\" class=\"Normal tm7\"><span class=\"tm6\">Follow a shorter bedtime routine for naps<\/span><\/h3>\n<p class=\"Normal tm7\"><span class=\"tm8\">Before a nap, following some of the same steps from your baby\u2019s bedtime routine helps maintain consistency. However, not everything you do before bedtime needs to happen before a nap. You can skip switching to pajamas, brushing their teeth, and giving them a bath.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"what-to-include-in-a-bedtime-routine\" class=\"tm7\"><span class=\"tm8\">What to include in a bedtime routine<\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"Normal tm7\"><span class=\"tm8\">A baby is born with a weak sleep-wake rhythm. The circadian rhythm, which is the internal clock controlling the sleep-wake cycle of every living creature, develops later on in a newborn. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal tm7\"><span class=\"tm8\">With your assistance, your baby can learn to sync their internal clock with the world around them. A consistent bedtime routine helps your baby with that. Following a routine every night will help your baby understand when it\u2019s time to sleep. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal tm7\"><span class=\"tm8\">Some things to consider when establishing a bedtime routine are:<\/span><\/p>\n<h3 id=\"observe-the-baby\"><span class=\"tm6\">Observe the baby<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span class=\"tm8\"> When does your baby&#8217;s interest and engagement in activities decrease? How long has your baby been awake since their last nap? <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span class=\"tm8\">One of the most common parenting mistakes may be picking a bedtime based on external factors not related to your baby, such as when dad comes home from work.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3 id=\"a-final-feeding\"><span class=\"tm6\">A final feeding<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span class=\"tm8\"> Ideally, your baby\u2019s final feeding should be done in a well-lit room. And the baby should stay awake from the moment they start feeding until the moment they finish.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3 id=\"tell-your-baby-that-its-sleep-time\"><span class=\"tm6\">Tell your baby that it&#8217;s sleep time<\/span><strong><span class=\"tm6\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><span class=\"tm8\">Take your baby into the room where they sleep for the night. Keep repeating &#8220;it\u2019s sleep time&#8221; throughout the routine, so your baby learns what it means.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3 id=\"set-the-stage-for-nighttime\"><span class=\"tm6\">Set the stage for nighttime<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span class=\"tm8\">Draw the curtains, and dim the lights. Make sure to remove all sources of noise or distraction from the room. Play or sing a little lullaby. If you have a white noise machine or <a href=\"https:\/\/get.invidyo.com\/\">a baby monitor<\/a> that uses white noise, play some.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3 id=\"get-your-baby-ready-for-bed\"><span class=\"tm6\">Get your baby ready for bed<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span class=\"tm8\">Change their diaper and put on their pajamas.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3 id=\"create-a-sense-of-security\"><span class=\"tm6\">Create a sense of security<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span class=\"tm8\">If your baby is younger than 4 months, swaddling them helps provide a sense of security. For an older baby, a sleep sack might be a good choice to instill a sense of warmth and security.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3 id=\"mark-that-its-the-end-of-the-day\"><span class=\"tm6\">Mark that it\u2019s the end of the day<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span class=\"tm8\">Read a short book and add a final cuddle with your baby.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h3 id=\"place-your-baby-in-the-crib-when-drowsy\"><span class=\"tm6\">Place your baby in the crib<\/span> <span class=\"tm8\">when drowsy <\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span class=\"tm8\">This should be done when your baby is still awake but calm and easing into sleep mode. If you allow your baby to soothe themself, they might soon fall asleep on their own. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal tm7\"><span class=\"tm8\">Incorporating these habits into your baby&#8217;s bedtime routine will make for the &#8220;perfect&#8221; routine. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal tm7\"><span class=\"tm8\">However, for many parents feeding or rocking the baby into sleep is an ordinary part of a bedtime routine. Especially in the first months, these are normal, and if they work for you just continue with them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal tm7\"><span class=\"tm8\">Experts generally recommend stopping associating feedings with sleep at around 4 to 6 months.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"a-sample-timeline-for-a-bedtime-routine\" class=\"Normal\"><span class=\"tm6\">A sample timeline for a bedtime routine<\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"Normal\"><span class=\"tm8\">So what does a sample timeline for your baby&#8217;s bedtime routine look like?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal tm7\"><strong><span class=\"tm6\">30 to 45 minutes before sleep:<\/span><\/strong><span class=\"tm8\"> You can give your baby a bath (Experts recommend not bathing your baby every day, especially in the winter). But you may bathe your baby every other day if it soothes them.<br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal tm7\"><strong><span class=\"tm6\">15 to 30 minutes before sleep:<\/span><\/strong><span class=\"tm8\"> You may massage your baby, change their diaper and change them into pajamas. Don\u2019t forget to draw the curtains and dim the lights in the room where your baby sleeps.<br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal tm7\"><strong><span class=\"tm6\">10 to 15 minutes before sleep:<\/span><\/strong><span class=\"tm8\"> You can read a short book and do a final cuddle.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal tm7\"><strong><span class=\"tm6\">5 minutes before sleep:<\/span><\/strong><span class=\"tm8\"> Your baby should be very drowsy. Put them down in their crib before they fall asleep.<\/span><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><strong><span class=\"tm6\">References:<\/span><\/strong><span class=\"tm8\"> mayoclinic.org, enfamil.com, nhs.uk, familydoctor.org, raisingchildren.net.au, healthychildren.org, aap.org, thebump.com, nestedbean.com, babycentre.co.uk, pregnancybirthbaby.org.au, clevelandclinic.org, whattoexpect.com,<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal tm7\"><span class=\"tm8\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal tm7\"><span class=\"tm8\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal\">\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Establishing a bedtime routine is an important part of your baby&#8217;s development. 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